Break-up Advise

Break-ups are unavoidable unless both parties know deep down that the relationship will last forever. As hard as it can get, breaking up is part of life. There are times in a relationship that a person feels that he/she is not happy anymore. There are also other reasons that can include family matters, life problems, financial problems, and even conflict of interests.But whatever the reason may be, we should always prepare ourselves from this kind of situation. The best preparation however, is caution. It is better to caution ourselves from ever triggering the "break-up" lines as much as possible. We can do this by just becoming worthy partners to our loved ones.

*Article from 101 how to avoid unwanted breakup

Lame Break-up, petty reasons.
Most couples who argue always end up in break-ups. They thought this is a nice and challenging way to have the relationship. They break-up because the guy did not like her new hairdo. They break-up because the girl is pissed off because he is late. These are all lame break-ups because the reasons are all petty and very childish.

When you are into a relationship, make an effort to at least learn and improve yourself towards the person you are in love with. Do not test your partner's love for you by breaking up with him or her. This is not the kind of love you should be giving and it is so unselfish if you are acting this way toward your partner. If you can avoid breaking-up for petty reasons, then you are going into a relationship that will last long.

A question of happiness.
One of the most used break-up reason is "I am not happy anymore". This is true. You should be able to ask yourself if your partner is happy with you or if you are happy with your partner. Are you staying together just for showing your friends you are good as a couple, but really you are not happy? By clarifying this issue with your partner, you have a better view of where your relationship is going.

There is always a reason for everything.
When your partner is breaking up with you, ask him or her the reasons why. But if it is you who is doing the break-up, make sure you have your concrete reasons. Prepare yourself to give him/her the reasons why you are not anymore interested to commit. Do not ever walk out of your partner without even saying the reasons. Be just and fair.

No dates after the break-up.
Dating is not good when you recently had a break-up. You do not want to confuse yourself if you really like the person you are dating or you are just making excuses to feel better. In addition, you may also hurt your date's feelings by making him/her your rebound guy or girl. Give yourself time to heal the wounds. There is always time for everything. You can call your friends to comfort you if you really want to seek help of someone. If you have eased the pain of your break-up, you know you are prepared to see someone new again.