Break-up Advise

Break-ups are unavoidable unless both parties know deep down that the relationship will last forever. As hard as it can get, breaking up is part of life. There are times in a relationship that a person feels that he/she is not happy anymore. There are also other reasons that can include family matters, life problems, financial problems, and even conflict of interests.But whatever the reason may be, we should always prepare ourselves from this kind of situation. The best preparation however, is caution. It is better to caution ourselves from ever triggering the "break-up" lines as much as possible. We can do this by just becoming worthy partners to our loved ones.

*Article from 101 how to avoid unwanted breakup

Lame Break-up, petty reasons.
Most couples who argue always end up in break-ups. They thought this is a nice and challenging way to have the relationship. They break-up because the guy did not like her new hairdo. They break-up because the girl is pissed off because he is late. These are all lame break-ups because the reasons are all petty and very childish.

When you are into a relationship, make an effort to at least learn and improve yourself towards the person you are in love with. Do not test your partner's love for you by breaking up with him or her. This is not the kind of love you should be giving and it is so unselfish if you are acting this way toward your partner. If you can avoid breaking-up for petty reasons, then you are going into a relationship that will last long.

A question of happiness.
One of the most used break-up reason is "I am not happy anymore". This is true. You should be able to ask yourself if your partner is happy with you or if you are happy with your partner. Are you staying together just for showing your friends you are good as a couple, but really you are not happy? By clarifying this issue with your partner, you have a better view of where your relationship is going.

There is always a reason for everything.
When your partner is breaking up with you, ask him or her the reasons why. But if it is you who is doing the break-up, make sure you have your concrete reasons. Prepare yourself to give him/her the reasons why you are not anymore interested to commit. Do not ever walk out of your partner without even saying the reasons. Be just and fair.

No dates after the break-up.
Dating is not good when you recently had a break-up. You do not want to confuse yourself if you really like the person you are dating or you are just making excuses to feel better. In addition, you may also hurt your date's feelings by making him/her your rebound guy or girl. Give yourself time to heal the wounds. There is always time for everything. You can call your friends to comfort you if you really want to seek help of someone. If you have eased the pain of your break-up, you know you are prepared to see someone new again.

Cheeky Day

I dunno..i kept smiling all day long.i smiled as wide as monkey smile (just like pic above)..haha..Its all thanx to hunny bunny chichiness for making my life as bright as the sun =D.wohoooooo..i realized, wen i wrote about something sad..it's only a temporary feeling.Im glad after few things have changed, my life's getting better and happier.its all after he clarified 'things'.Im grateful for what i had in my life.i dun want to change it..i have great accompany. =X. and most important thing he loves me and i love him.

P/S: i loved your morning SMS today ...sweet like choc.thanx bby.

Spill Out Straight From The Heart

i am a ferocious woman and heartless sometimes.so,i guess there's nothing special about me to be proud of.perhaps egoistic makes me win the titles.but when it comes to relationship,i lose.i become a lovable person.see,how complicated i am to be Fatrisha Yussof.The dark and angel side are equal.Anyway,i am not attracted to new guys and dun give a fuck of those flirtatious act.Frankly,i am confuse.i cry a lot than laugh now.i wish there is no word of hurt or feeling hurt exist.right now i have many wish than before.i wish i could say things to express my inner feeling rather than crying.i used to be the 'princess'.i miss the greatest feeling.now, i confronted with too many words of 'depends' and 'buts'.Sometimes I'm tired of the feeling but i hold back because of the responsibility.i believe fortune favors the brave.i hate the word losing and even worst the failure because i dunno how to deal with it but i prefer the word improving or 'workout' because it has always lead to positive consequences.i forgive and forget.'if i were a boy' is the song that i dedicated to all man in the world.if Ive been given a chance to say words to lovebirds i would say "Love and appreciate your partner before its gone because when u try to reach them back.its not going to be the same.then you'll realize how much ure losing.".Currently, i am learning of words growing-up because i want to make decision like an adult.i don't want to make mistake that i will regret forever.Hey people dun get me wrong,im not single or being dumped out.i am still HIS fav gf..everything i wrote up there is coming from my heart and need to spill it out.well u can be the judges.

P/s: i miss my guy.do you miss me? =(..

You fall,You fail.

yes, im a crybaby but im not easily to fall because im fear of failing.
yes, im a crybaby but that doesnt mean im weak.
so keep on moving.Fat.

p/s:miss him..

Dear Him,

For real,I don't know what makes me love u endlessly,but i just do!
love you chilel,Don't fail me to love you.day by days the love feeling is stronger but sometimes it could be fragile.keep me like u taking care of a glass from breaking.love me unconditionally.muah.love you always.

love,
Her

Vice Versa

i need you to listen but not barking,
i need you to be there but not making reason,
i need you to comfort but not annoyed.
vice versa,
you need me to listen and i always lend my ears,
you need me to be there and i always be there,
you need me to comfort and i always convince.

or maybe i just cry for the moon?
Today,im fucking sad.
moreover,
i terrify of tonnes assignment.monday is a presentation day.
but thats not the major that bloody messed me.hah.whatever.
In sum, Im Fucked up.Mother 'F'.Ugh.

You Stole My Precious

I'm so happy today.i had a great moment for today's outing.i swear i want to go out with cici again rite now.hukhuk...Anyway,we went to Bukit Bintang for window shopping,flooded our stomachs with delicious food,and karaoke-ing..i missed the karaoke-ing part..i like the way he sang,it sounds good =D and to the climax, i sang a song 'how do i live' by leann rymes.At first,it went well but almost at the end of the song my voice start to tremble,my eyes watery and finally tears burst out.he noticed and pulled me close to him "dah jangan nangis,im with you..".its 2minutes touching moment.Perhaps,im too terrify of losing someone and the song was just like begging him to be with me,dun leave me and bla bla..well yeah,i mite be leaving soon after graduation(insyallah).I guess that is the reason why I was in tears..haishh...im too emotional..lucky me,he understand.yelaahhhh Libra kan..sensitif lebiy jer..haha..btw,if one day u(cici)read my blog, keep this word in mind that i love you soooooo mush.Heart you internally and externally.You stole my precious heart.mwax..

How Do I Live -lyric-

How do I
Get through one night without you
If I had to live without you
What kind of life would that be?
Oh I, I need you in my arms
Need you to hold
Your my world my heart my soul
If you ever leave
Baby you would take away everything good in my Life.

Without you
There'd be no sun in my sky
There would be no love in my life
There would be no world left for me
And I
Baby I don't know what I would do
I'd be lost if I lost you
If you ever leave
Baby you would take away everything real in My life

And tell me now
How do I live without you
I want to know
How do I breathe without you
If you ever go
How do I ever, ever survive?
How do I
How do I
Oh how do I live?...

If you ever leave
Baby you would take away everything
Need you with me
Baby cuz you know your everything good in My life

And tell me now
How do I live without you
I want to know
How do I breathe without you
If you ever go
How do I ever, ever survive?
How do I
How do I
Oh how do I live

How do I live without you
How do I live without you baby.......
How do I live....